Action vs Reaction

Where do I begin and where does it end…?!

Conflict or contrast can be challenging. It’s a part of life, which is why there is a saying: “Life is not FAIR!” Especially when you are married and with children. Life is meant to have contrast, if it wasn’t, humans would be bored. That's the duality of humanity, the positive and negative, action versus reaction. Life is meant to have an ebb and flow because that’s how the universe maintains balance.

I recently read an article on social media that summarized the point: if humans didn’t have mistakes, how would they learn? If you want to be wealthy, you must always be learning something new and make your money work for you. I also read that humans enjoy evolving because it’s a natural aspect of life. We dream big, and love to explore the unknown. And those of us who seek it are faced with more struggles to the top. This is why when we get there we either fail to give back to those who think they helped us get to the level of success we are at or are not grateful for the success we made so we don’t give back. I get it because I use to be ”in the box,” but now I’m ”out of the box.” Once I expound my thinking, my brain and subconscious began to implement ideas into action alongside my emotions. I changed what I thought about money, earning money, the value of money, and the value of the experiences being purchased with money.

I began to integrate and remember I am whole, and then came the urge and desire to heal myself and my relationships. I have to give props where they are due, my new lifestyle choices have led me back to my true self without any masks. I am authentic in the best way. I disregarded what everyone said to me… I’m delusional or I need to blah blah blah… I am alright with myself and love myself for wanting more out of life than being stagnant. Becoming my own boss and starting a business that I am passionate to wake up every day to earn a living… fulfills me in the most thrilling way and it doesn’t feel like it will ever end. This is the legacy! I want to leave my children and my children's children a family legacy that never dies and creates generational wealth. I want them to face their challenges and remind themselves to keep going forward, and when they think their actions haven’t led them to healthy solutions, evaluate themselves first then others. We create our own realities. If we aren’t getting our desires fulfilled, why not create a healthy action to ignite the change we seek?

My motto is to be the change I seek in the world. It looks like starting with your thoughts and actions and emotions. Heal and align the latter and your dream lifestyle will begin to appear before your eyes.

Patience is a virtue. Learn to live life with patience. Time is of the essence, but with patience and due diligence, your desires for a better-flowing lifestyle will await. What’s your desire and what actions are you taking to achieve the desires of your heart?!

With ❤️ & 💡, LL